In this episode of Queer Conversations: A Friend of Dorothy Podcast, hosts Oliver and Azamat sit down with Dr. Gareth Patterson, known online as “The Irish GP”, to discuss LGBTQ+ health, sexual wellness, and self-discovery through a deeply personal lens.
Dr. Gareth Patterson opens up about his journey as a gay doctor, how personal challenges have shaped his advocacy, and what true queer health education should look like today. Together, they dive into key topics that every listener in the LGBTQ+ community can relate to — from the impact of douching and testosterone on health, to navigating psychosexual wellbeing with compassion and understanding.
💡 What You’ll Learn:
• How to douche safely — the do’s, don’ts, and myths every gay man should know
• Best diet tips for bottoming — foods that support digestion, comfort, and confidence
• How low testosterone can influence mood, libido, and overall health
• Key insights into psychosexual wellness and building real intimacy
• Practical tips for accessing inclusive, supportive healthcare as a gay or queer person
• Why community and authenticity are essential parts of healing and thriving
✨ Honest, informative, and empowering — this episode is for anyone passionate about queer wellbeing, sexual confidence, and living authentically.
Chapter list
Meet Dr. Gareth Patterson: The Irish GP Championing LGBTQ+ Health
00:00:00
From Conservative Roots to Self-Acceptance & Pride
00:01:57
Surviving Conversion Therapy & Finding True Liberation
00:08:54
From Belfast to London: Transforming Queer Healthcare Access
00:16:33
Understanding Low Testosterone: Symptoms, Solutions & NHS Barriers
00:21:06
Colon & Prostate Health: What Every Gay Man Should Know
00:40:19
DoxyPEP, STIs & Weight Loss Drugs: How to Get GP Support Safely
00:44:25
