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London only — for now
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June · 7:30 PM
Friend of Dorothy presents

myndstate — an evening of spoken word & Q&A

Where The Ministry, London
When 26th June, 7:30pm
Tickets £15

An intimate night of queer spoken word, storytelling and connection with national poetry slam winner myndstate. A room full of gay men, hearing stories that reflect their own.

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Nobody taught us how to look after our bodies.
So we learned the hard way — and built this for everyone behind us.

— Azamat & Oliver, Founders
Azamat Valiyev
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Oliver James
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Built by gay men
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Mainstream wellness has never been built for us. The supplement aisle skips over what we actually deal with — and nobody ever sat us down to talk about it.

So we did it ourselves. Azamat spent 10 years at McKinsey and earned his MBA at Duke. Oliver spent 20+ years in LGBT marketing in the UK. We built the brand we wished existed when we were figuring it all out — no shame, no tiptoeing, just stuff that works for the way we live.

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Real talks with the people
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We invite doctors, nutritionists, fitness coaches and sex therapists onto the Friend of Dorothy Podcast — to break down everything mainstream wellness leaves out.

Dr. Gareth Patterson
Dr. Gareth Patterson
GP · NHS

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Dr. Tony Fordham
Dr. Tony Fordham
BSc, MBChB · Specialist Registrar

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Matt Boyles
Matt Boyles
Founder, Fitter Confident You

"For building muscle and strength on the physical side — I always recommend creatine gummies to my clients."

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Daniel O'Shaughnessy
Daniel O'Shaughnessy
BSc, DipION, MBANT, CNHC · Nutritionist

"We should be passing a stool without having to clean much after. Fibre supplements are one way to get there."

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